Friday, January 11, 2013


PAINFUL!!!! As much as I love my child it was O so painful. I had been in labor from the end of my fifth month until the day I actually had my son. I had been threatening a miscarriage for several months and the ‘day’ I actually was in labor I wasn’t in any pain until I left from a routine doctor’s visit and she told me I was “4 centimeters dilated and needed to go ahead and meet her at the hospital.” I got to the hospital at 4:00 and had my son at 1:30 in the morning! The labor itself I was told and I believe I handled it well, I remember getting in the Jacuzzi and told them “to get me out or I will pull it out of the floor!” After all of that…it was all forgotten when they put my son on my chest! The memory is priceless. No training or education can prepare you for labor in my opinion.

As I searched what other women did in other countries I came across an article that talked about how Nepalese women, for instance, are sometimes pressured to push the baby out before their bodies are ready. Hmong women must give birth alone, without expressing any pain or discomfort, as do women in Nigeria; one in 18 die during the process. Tibetan women often give birth in animal pens. In Bangladeshi women give birth in a hospital, they're often berated by the staff and prevented from reciting religious verses that they traditionally use as a source of comfort pain management. Women in Uganda and Bangladesh are looked down upon for expressing the pain of childbirth, which usually happens at home. Korean women are discouraged from getting pain medication but often have episiotomies forced on them.


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