PAINFUL!!!! As much as I love my child it was O so painful. I had been in
labor from the end of my fifth month until the day I actually had my son. I had
been threatening a miscarriage for several months and the ‘day’ I actually was
in labor I wasn’t in any pain until I left from a routine doctor’s visit and
she told me I was “4 centimeters dilated and needed to go ahead and meet her at
the hospital.” I got to the hospital at 4:00 and had my son at 1:30 in the
morning! The labor itself I was told and I believe I handled it well, I
remember getting in the Jacuzzi and told them “to get me out or I will pull it
out of the floor!” After all of that…it was all forgotten when they put my son
on my chest! The memory is priceless. No training or education can prepare you
for labor in my opinion.
As I searched what other women did in other countries I came
across an article that talked about how Nepalese women, for instance, are
sometimes pressured to push the baby out before their bodies are ready. Hmong women
must give birth alone, without expressing any pain or discomfort, as do women
in Nigeria; one in 18 die during the process. Tibetan women often give birth in
animal pens. In Bangladeshi women give birth in a hospital, they're often
berated by the staff and prevented from reciting religious verses that they
traditionally use as a source of comfort pain management. Women in Uganda and
Bangladesh are looked down upon for expressing the pain of childbirth, which
usually happens at home. Korean women are discouraged from getting pain
medication but often have episiotomies forced on them.
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